Do Something That Makes You Uncomfortable

I'm thinking of shaving my head. (buzz, not bald) Should I do it?
Jan 27 09 via twhirlFavoriteRetweetReply

Yesterday I tested myself.

All my life, I've never done this, though it's always been on my list of things that I want to do. Just one of those things.

It may not seem like a big deal, but after 41 years (to the day, thank you), I've become pretty attached to my hair. Nothing crazy, I'm no Sam "Mayday" Malone, but this is the hair I've got, and it's been sticking with me even as I enter my fifth decade.

jangro I'm thinking of shaving my head. (buzz, not bald) Should I do it?
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As you'll hear in the video, it occurred to me that few things in my life have made me as nervous as going under the clippers.

That's pretty significant. But why? In the grand scheme of things, it really shouldn't rank up there. And really what was the risk? That I'd look bad? Worst case scenario I have to wear a baseball hat for a few months.

Even so, it was pretty nerve wracking.

With the encouragement (sincere, I'm sure) of several guys on twitter, and in spite of a few women discouraging the act (thanks for the support, ladies), I put fear aside and went through with it.

The point here has nothing to do with a silly haircut, but that I did something that I was very uncomfortable with.

And it turned out ok. Though I'll let you be the judge of that.

More importantly, what are you putting off doing something because of fear?

  • Speaking in public?
  • Starting a blog?
  • Making a video podcast?
    (while you're walking down the street in a busy town? Which was also a little scary.)
  • Getting out of a job you're sick of?
  • Speaking out on an important issue?
  • Doing what you really want to do with your career?
  • Changing your hair style? ;)

Don't be a chicken.

Whatever it is, don't let fear of failure or a bad outcome stop you. No matter how it turns out, you'll be better for it.

My birthday gift to you, whether it makes you laugh or gives you a little inspiration, watch the video...


Don't Be a Chicken. from Scott Jangro on Vimeo.

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  • jangro saved this to Fun 3 years ago
  • Posted by lissriolo 3 years ago

    First of all - Happy Birthday.

    Glad you celebrated be excercising your ability to choose, to create change and all that

    Side note: Your new nicname is Buzz in my contacts list

    Posted by Scott Jangro 3 years ago

    Thanks!

    "buzz jangro" that works.

    Posted by andrew wee 3 years ago

    "Buzz Jangro" I like it. Will you do another before ASW so we can take pics with you in all our glory?

    Gratz on breaking yr comfort zone

    Maybe a real shave this time?

    Posted by Scott Jangro 3 years ago

    real shave? you first!

    Posted by andrew wee 3 years ago

    Years ago, I went to my barber and because my hair is thick, i asked for it short. He said "Crewcut?" Not knowing better, I said "Ok!". Next thing I know, almost all my hair is on the floor.

    If we can raise funds for the next ASW charity, maybe a group of us can get shorn for the books?

  • Posted by Shawn Collins 3 years ago

    Nice work, suedehead.

    I mentioned to my wife that maybe I'd pledge to get shaved bald if we ended up raising x amount for charity via Affiliate Summit and she shot daggers at me.

    I might just have to do it, since I like hair stunts.

    Posted by Scott Jangro 3 years ago

    I'd pay cash money to see you bald!

    Posted by Shawn Collins 3 years ago

    I'll have to revisit this right before Affiliate Summit - I'd be into it for charity.

  • Posted by Andy C 3 years ago

    I did a similar thing without telling anyone. I was nervous and the worst bit was the barber repreatedly asking 'Are you sure ? No. 3 all over. Are you sure ?'

    My wife was horrified, my kids laughed for days. Literally.

    I completely forgot about it until I shaved or brushed my teeth.

    PS. I wouldn't call your head 'shaved' - just cut short. Next time ask for a No. 1 :-)

  • Posted by Scott Jangro 3 years ago

    LOL.

    My 11 yo daughter freaked out, but likes it. My 2.5 yo son didn't even notice.

    And you're right, I shouldn't have used the word "shaved". It's shaved to me though.

  • Posted by Pat Grady 3 years ago

    Dude, hair thing is fun, but I gotta say I am noticing your video editing skills have improved a ton, the captions content and timing and other details are right on. I wasn't just informed, I was entertained. Glad that you're not resting on your best blogger award laurels.

    rock on with your bad swirly-proof self.

    ps - now that rubbing your head feels tingle-y... some fuzzy head tricks will come along natrually... soon. video some of those for us bud.

    Posted by Scott Jangro 3 years ago

    Thanks Pat, that means a lot. I am having fun with the video.

  • Posted by Geno Prussakov 3 years ago

    "My 2.5 yo son didn't even notice." - LOL

    Looking good!

    Honestly, when I just started watching that video, I too thought you're gonna shave bald. What you got looks much better than what I thought I was gonna see... :)

    Great haircut! Excellent video!

    Posted by Scott Jangro 3 years ago

    yeah, again, sorry about use of the "shave" term. Maybe someday! Me and Collins for charity.

    uh, maybe not. I'm afraid of what my head looks like under there. :)

  • Posted by Jim Kukral 3 years ago

    I really like the message Scott. Forget the hair, you've got a great story there and motivational message. I'll have to feature this to my coaching clients.

    Posted by Scott Jangro 3 years ago

    Thanks Jim. I knew you would.

  • Posted by Joe Magennis 3 years ago

    Scott .. nice job using a personal story to make a great point. Isn't it funny how a haircut can invoke the same level of anxiety as a major job change!?! Well done.

    BTW .. when I was growing up in New England we actually would wait until the Summer to get the buzz cuts .. you know? Cold air, head .. brrrr

    Posted by Scott Jangro 3 years ago

    Thanks Joe. yeah, as a foot of snow dumps on us...

    If it wasn't clear from how this "went down", this was not a thoroughly planned activity... and that's what they make hats for.

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  • Posted by Deborah a.k.a Loxly 3 years ago

    Great post, great senitment, ok haircut :) Some people are too comfortable with the status quo and don't want to do anything to rock the boat. But instead they should and they could find that a. it's not so bad and b. the status quo was boring :)

    Posted by Scott Jangro 3 years ago

    just ok? LOL. you girls are funny with the hair!

  • Posted by Brad_Waller 3 years ago

    You call that shaved? That's just trim. Let's see a real shave next time.

    Posted by andrew wee 3 years ago

    From the hair master: When brad talks, everyone listens!

  • Posted by Todd Crawford 3 years ago

    ahhh, that isn't that short - next time cut it shorter

  • Posted by Joe Sousa 3 years ago

    I remember when I had long hair back in the early 90's and I decided to cut it. My hair was pretty much down to the middle of my neck all the way around and it was one of the things people knew me by but I started playing basketball in a league and it kept flopping in my face so my two choices were a ponytail (NEVER GONNA HAPPEN) or shave it off so I went for the shave. I have kept it short ever since but I have always wished I would have kept it.

    I would grow it out again but it took about 2 or 3 years for me to get it that long and I hate the way it looks between short and long so I have never grown it out again.

    But the cut looks good on you. And if you want to you can just buy a pair of clippers and cut your own hair now.

    Posted by Scott Jangro 3 years ago

    I could cut it myself, but then I'd never leave the house! Plus, the barber shaves my neck with a straightedge and hot shaving cream!

    Posted by Shawn Collins 3 years ago

    Exactly - the the excellence of that finale to a barber shop haircut cannot be expressed in words.

    Posted by Joe Sousa 3 years ago

    Yeah, I gotta give it up for the neck shave. Kinda forgot about that glorious finish to the barber experience. Talk about a happy ending...

  • Posted by Bob Land 3 years ago

    I always admired you, Scott, for leaving your day job. The day you left was like watching David Carradine as Kwai Chang Caine walking off into the sunset as he did at the end of each episode. Remember?

    For what it's worth, I wish I had half your guts - and talent.

    Happy Birthday old-timer.

    ...and remember: "To suppress a truth is to give it force beyond endurance." — Master Kan

    Posted by Scott Jangro 3 years ago

    Wow Bob, thanks so much. And Caine is one of my biggest heroes growing up. Great quote.

  • Posted by MikeAllen 3 years ago

    Nice way to weave a personal story/video into an excellent point. I remember the first time I buzzed my hair and I remember quitting my day job in 2003 to do affiliate marketing full time. Both were apprehensive. Now I'm considering other challenges like running for local office. That is a difficult decision.

    Fear is good for making us think; however, it can also be paralyzing and that's not good. After we have spent sufficient time and effort into making our decision, it is time to dive in. Thank you for that reminder.

    Good post and good lesson.

    Posted by Kunal 3 years ago

    I agree with Mike on this one, Scott - really motivational post. I've been thinking of blogging for a while but just a little uncomfortable as I'm never sure if people will like what I have to say. This is truly inspiring and I'm going to try my hand at it for sure. On the hair cut note - it looks great and I was honestly thinking of doing some sort of a bet with you after the NHL post - if the Bruins were to win to shave my head. You already beat me to it :)

    We will have to come up with another creative challenge now!

  • Posted by Jonathan (Trust) 3 years ago

    Nice, have had that style for years now. I do it myself, just go at it with some clippers. You have to step up with the next haircut. Get a mohawk. Then you can use the sides of your head for advertising space.

  • Posted by Jonathan (Trust) 3 years ago

    Oh and the advertising on the side of your head can go for charity. Do it for the kids :)

  • Posted by Scott Jangro 3 years ago

    Brad Waller is the ONLY person I know who can rightly give me grief about length of my hair.

  • Posted by Garrett 3 years ago

    Welcome to the club Scott....at least your hair will grow back, though.

  • Posted by Alex 3 years ago

    Great post. You never know what's ahead before diving in and trying something totally new.

  • Posted by TrishaLyn 3 years ago

    it's too bad your hair isn't longer and you guys can't shave it and donate it to Locks of Love.

    And great sentiment... I'm gearing up for a new podcast and doing more video as we speak, so thanks for the extra kick that it was a good decision :)

  • Posted by jgoode 3 years ago

    great job and thanks for sharing the internal terror with us all... now that we know you came out ok of your scary place... maybe we can too -- first we need to find those thoughts we have so craftily stashed away in the "forget me please" pile... so that we can act on them. give me a few months to act on this one.

    way to go - you look fabulous - and just think, a more "oh i gotta rub his head" kinda do for many ;)

    Posted by Scott Jangro 3 years ago

    My daughter's hello and goodbye rituals now involve a two-handed head rub. :)

  • Posted by jane 3 years ago

    awesome post! thank you very much :-)

  • Posted by Juliette 3 years ago

    Why would I wanna do something that makes me feel unconfortable? :)

  • Posted by salcom 2 years, 12 months ago

    Great post. I wanna test it

  • Posted by altroconsumo 2 years, 12 months ago

    Lol, I thought I was the only one in the world freakingly scared by barbers...usually I cut my hair as short as I can, and then I procrastinate the next haircut until the hair become a bush... :D

  • Posted by Fine-Minds.com 2 years, 12 months ago

    Very nice post!! I have added your blog to my RSS feed

  • Posted by disneyland guide 2 years, 11 months ago

    this reminds me of the first time i got my head shaved - about 10 years ago. the barber had screwed up on my haircut and i decided to just get a buzz cut. i thought i looked hideous and didnt want to leave the house at first but eventually i got used to the look and sported the same cut for the next 5 years.

  • Posted by laptops 2 years, 11 months ago

    It feels good doesn't it? The reason I say is that I have only recently got over my fear of speaking in public, and i'm chuffed!

  • Posted by Ernie Small 2 years, 11 months ago

    funny little vid. i hadn't heard about the monster.com thing.

  • Posted by MacTops 2 years, 11 months ago

    Hilarious vid. I can never get out of my comfort zone!

  • Posted by Andy C 2 years, 2 months ago

    I did a similar thing without telling anyone. I was nervous and the worst bit was the barber repreatedly asking 'Are you sure ? No. 3 all over. Are you sure ?'

    My wife was horrified, my kids laughed for days. Literally.

    I completely forgot about it until I shaved or brushed my teeth.

    PS. I wouldn't call your head 'shaved' - just cut short. Next time ask for a No. 1 :-)


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